This is hard for me...
To not speak my mind
To hold my tongue
To be silent
To not jump to conclusions
To still my raging, warring mind
To not immediately react
To let it go
To let it ride
To go with the flow
To admit I'm not in control
To not try to fix things
To not try to make things right
To not impose myself into the situation
To remind myself that sometimes patience is required
To not listen to the clock's tick, tick, tick
To figure things will work out, one way or another
To accept that what happens is what happens
To not just know ZEN, but to be ZEN