This works in life too. You can spend your days always saying "Yes," or "Yes, and..." but, of course, it can get you into trouble, or lead you into unwanted adventures.
When we are children we live in the world of "I WANT!" Some of us live in the world of "I WANT" throughout our lives. It is a childish way to live. But it certainly helps drive our consumer culture. Some of us start living in the world of "No!" More and more, "No" becomes the answer. "No meat," "No gluten," "No vodka," "No bullshit!"
It's a delicate balance. You don't want to live in a world of renunciation. You try your best to live in the land of "Yes, and of course, sometimes No."
It's a delicate balance. You don't want to live in a world of renunciation. You try your best to live in the land of "Yes, and of course, sometimes No."
