I think the folks who tell you
GOD is LOVE actually have it backwards. It's really the other way around.
LOVE is GOD. The trick to living a "good" life, is to discover, and to pursue, what you LOVE to do, and to do those things to the max. Love rules. You find the things you LOVE and give everything to those things. I mean, I know every day is a challenge, there is the schlep, the slog, the powering thru, but just like a moth to the light, we must go to Love, always.