Each of us are on a private journey. The world happens, we perceive what we conceive, everything is up to us. How we choose to deal with what happens, defines us. No one can experience another's pain, we all experience pain. How we act in a crisis is a test of who we are, what we believe, how we think. There is a strength, a power in this circumstance. Is this just a lie of the mind, a strategy, a discipline, or an essential tool, like a leg, an arm? Each of us gets to answer this question for ourselves.