Too happy, you make others pissed off.
Too optimistic, you make others want to kick you.
Too enthusiastic, you make others laugh at you.
You don't want to be "too anything."
MODULATE!
Too visible, they all want to squash you.
Beware, be careful, don't be too much. I mean, yes, be too much, but keep it close to the vest. Let the flame burn high inside, but only show so much, otherwise others will try to douse that flame. It's just the way of those others... funny, that...