Your Extreme "Not Included-ness!"

"Well, yes, it's a weird phenomena, you can be "so out," so "not included," so not thought about, so ignored and marginalized, that finally there is this weird switch in polarity, and suddenly your "out-ness," your "not included-ness," your extreme marginalization, becomes the cool thing that others seek out. You are so out, you are finally "in" because you have gloried so well, you have practiced and refined your "outness," so definitively, that it is finally elevated to an art. And others are drawn to it, like moths to a flame!"